“I’ll never sign my kid up for one of those expensive club baseball teams.”
I said this for years before having kids. But you know what they say? The very best parents with all the answers are the ones that don’t have kids. Unfortunately, this has proven to be true many times over the years.
I saw a lot of burnout in high school and college baseball. Players who didn’t want to play baseball anymore were forced into it by their parents. There’s no doubt burnout is real. But how many people have you known got a job in something they were passionate about only to see that passion burn out?
So, knowing this, why in the world would I still sign my kid up for a club baseball team? Like anything as parents, our views evolve as we go. I believe that’s what defines good parenting. It’s pretty easy to have opinions when you don’t have kids or are young, but as you grow and evolve as a parent, so do your views.
I believe that paying a lot of money to get my kid on a travel baseball team is the right decision for our family. But maybe I’ll be wrong. Time will tell. Below are additional thoughts on why we’re excited to start this journey with him.
What is Club Baseball?
Youth baseball in the United States has changed so much since I was a kid. Back in the day, you could play competitive recreational league baseball right around the corner from your house. That isn’t the case anymore. Slowly, over the years, more club baseball teams have popped up.
Club baseball teams generally have a dozen or two units at various age brackets, usually starting at 8u and going up to 18u or 19u. Many club baseball teams focus heavily on tournament play and travel. Club baseball teams are more selective about their players, often holding tryouts to fill out a roster.
The costs for club baseball teams can be much higher than $700. Some teams charge $3,000 to $5,000 for a summer, especially as kids get older and start traveling more. The high fees are often the result of frequent practices during the off-season, which are held indoors. Some programs also have paid coaches or trainers.
The Ugly Side of Club Baseball
The biggest downside to club baseball is that it prices lower-income families out of the game. In addition, if their kid is talented at a young age, they can quickly lose ground on others since they are not getting the same level of training, coaching, and competition. Raw talent can win out in the end, but it’s getting harder to keep up.
The other downside is that many club baseball teams are more of a big business that puts money ahead of doing what’s best for the kids. Some organizations are looking to turn a profit on the backs of parents who think their little angel will be the next major league baseball player.
They sell dreams of college scholarships, pro contracts, and winning a world series when very few will achieve those goals, no matter how hard they work. This is something we’ve been very cautious about when selecting a team.
Finally, the other big downside of club baseball is the number of games played during the spring, summer, and fall. There are some 10-year-old teams out there playing 100 games a year. That is completely insane. Kids will either burn out mentally or break down physically playing that amount of baseball when they are younger.
Thankfully I believe we’ve found a club that will be reasonable on cost, isn’t in it for the money, and will play a more balanced schedule. His team plans to play in a league (12-14 games) and then three tournaments.
Why We Signed Him Up For a Club Baseball Team Anyway
I have always felt that sports are one of the best teachers of life skills. Sports teach you to perform under pressure, fail and learn from it, become a better teammate and leader, and teach critical healthy habits. I played baseball in college and learned more about life on the ballfield than in the classroom.
However, let’s not get ahead of ourselves too much. My son is 9-years-old going on ten, and who knows where life will take him when it comes to sports.
Ultimately, we signed him up for an expensive club baseball team because he loves to play baseball. Simple as that.
Since he was three or four years old, he has wanted to play baseball ALL THE TIME. So when I mentioned the idea of having to practice with a club team twice a week over the winter, his eyes lit up with excitement. As parents, I think it’s important to lean into our kids’ healthy habits. A passion sparked in a game like baseball can carry over into other areas of life.
While I’m not looking forward to spending four figures on a 9-year-old playing baseball, there are a few things I’m excited about. The biggest is how my boy and I bond with the game of baseball. We’ve spent countless hours in the backyard playing ball or sitting on the couch watching games.
If he chooses to continue playing as he ages, I look forward to long road trips together as a family to play in tournaments. Hopefully, baseball can help teach him to turn failure into a positive after he strikes out to lose a game in a high-pressure situation.
I believe it’s essential to keep your kids active. Many kids get in trouble during that time after school and before dinner. Many other kids spend that time sitting in front of a screen for hours. I’d argue that getting your kids involved in activities is more important than ever.
Should You Sign Up Your Kid For a Club Baseball Team?
Nobody knows your child better than you do. You know if your kid has a passion for baseball. You should consider signing your child up for a club baseball team. Nothing is worse than forcing your child into an activity they don’t want to do.
I also realize that not everyone will be financially able to participate on a club baseball team. Considering your income, it would be best to weigh the financial aspect against other expenses. Weigh the pros and cons of your decision. The worst-case scenario for us is that he doesn’t like it, and we will find other activities for him next year. Either way, it should be a fun ride!
Mark is the founder of Financial Pilgrimage, a blog dedicated to helping young families pay down debt and live financially free. Mark has a Bachelor’s degree in financial management and a Master’s degree in economics and finance. He is a husband of one and father of two and calls St. Louis, MO, home. He also loves playing in old man baseball leagues, working out, and being anywhere near the water. Mark has been featured in Yahoo! Finance, NerdWallet, and the Plutus Awards Showcase.