It’s Okay to Be in Debt, Just Not Okay to Stay in Debt

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While getting into debt was not ideal, I don’t regret any of it, and thankfully we had the financial means to dig out. I know not everyone is as fortunate.

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Going Nearly $200,000 in Debt

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Drowning in Debt

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It was time to face the fact that we were slowly going down a path of debt accumulation that would be difficult to unwind if we continued pressing forward.

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There are some things we could have done differently to avoid debt. But, at the same time, I do not regret any of these decisions.

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It’s Okay to Be in Debt

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It’s okay to go into debt; it’s just not okay to stay in debt. You have to face your debt; otherwise, it can be challenging to make progress financially.

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